Move Ahead 1 Advance News - December 2004
By Special Guest Columnist, Brian Dodge
 In today's world, we seem to want the company and our position in it to define us. It is time for us to take charge of our lives and to make a difference. You are a valuable asset. I believe that one of biggest reasons people fail is they do not think they are valuable or appreciated. Others may not treat you with respect, but that does not negate the fact that you are a truly and undeniably valuable human being. Nothing anyone else can do or say will ever take away how you feel about yourself. The value of your life is yours! You can hide from it or ignore it if you choose, or you can make the commitment to make a difference by focusing on the possibilities that your life can bring not only to you but everyone close to you. People that choose to succeed always look for what is possible, not what is impossible. Rather than consider what is convenient, consider the possibilities. Do not argue about who is to blame for your mistakes, search for what is possible. The more stressful and uncertain a situation, the more possibilities there are. Like magic, possibilities can turn failure into success. If you will open your eyes to the real possibilities, not to the day in and day out process of your life, you will discover countless opportunities.
What is possible for you today? What is possible in your life? What is possible for your family? Every moment is a choice. Always remain fully aware of the true possibilities and choose to follow the most positive ones.
Keep in mind that you are more than your past and you are more than your limitations. You are more than the troubles of the moment and you are full of great possibilities. Open your eyes and your mind to the possibilities. Look into your possible futures and select the very best one to focus on. You will get back on track to making a difference in your life.
Remember, the biggest battle that you have in front of you is that you must truly convince yourself, without the slightest doubt or hesitancy, that you are valuable and a worthwhile person. The challenge of truly convincing yourself of this fact is the primary obstacle that stands between you and your desires. And yet, you have everything you need to overcome life's challenges. After all, you are skilled at convincing others. You have done it all your life. From your first cries that convinced your parents to feed you to the present where you can convince someone else to act in their best interests. Surely you can convince yourself.
You need to understand the importance of enjoying the process of rebuilding your love and excitement for achieving your goals. You must positively commit not only to the end result but also to the process. Always remember that no one does their best when doing something that is distasteful or unpleasant. And yet, there are certain specific actions that are necessary for success. It is easier to fall out of love with yourself than it is to continually love yourself.
Life Is Good!
Bryan J. Dodge
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